I've learned something from studying Law and that is until you have solid proof that the person has committed an offense or crime against you, the person is innocent and there is no case.
Applying it to daily life
I have to admit that everyone has our own individual faults and sometimes we exceed our limits and turn our backs against our friends, but those who have been hurt should think back and analyze whether it was indeed their own actions that cause the other to do 'harm'.
If you have done something to cause the other to react as they have, then you are also partly to be blame. In Law, we call that 'contributory negligence' which means you only 'win' half of the case as you were the source of the cause.
Therefore, those who say that there are backstabbers and gossipers should retrace their steps and analyze actions to see whether they have done anything at all to have cause those people who are supposedly 'backstabbers' and 'gossipers' to react in that manner.
This is just a thought after reading some random bloggy.
-chelle-
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